Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Men and Porn: Confessor's Point of View

Time for a quick Cappuccino and quiet...and when I say quick, it's unfortunately quick! (But, that is what makes it all the more sweeter! A stolen peaceful quiet moment, ah, 'tis gold! ;)) Thanks for joining me. I'm rushing this (as it seems to be whenever you have gold, you're in a rush!).

I was given this PDF link on Porn and how addictive it is to men...well, it was discussing Catholic men in particular and it's the view point from the other side of the confessional (I am always curious about that point of view! Curiosity killed the cat, I know...I know.). Not from the side of the man struggling with the addiction or embarrassed to confess it (perhaps it took forever to overcome his fears of confessing it or "how" to confess it and all that that Satan puts into every sinner's mind prior to confessing),but, yes, from the view point of the priest sitting there who is NOT shocked per se at "this" confession penitent speaking, but just 'how many' of this exact same thing he has heard in the short space of 1.5 hours! It's pretty prevalent. (So, if you always wanted to confess this sin, if this is a sin of yours, there's no time like today to get it off your chest finally...release the embarrassment and fears of sounding like the 'weirdo of the parish' LOL...unfortunately, you are not alone.)

This article then goes on to also speak (naturally) of healing (Confession obviously involves forgiveness, grace and healing). It gives suggestions for healing after confession. It gives encouragement to keep on keeping on...when you fall under your cross, don't get discouraged, get up, wipe off the mud, and get back to walking the Walk of the Crucifixion which is our battle life. Battle is tough. You get wounded. But, a real hero and fighter does not give up, not even if he sheds some blood...until victory is declared. I know we'll see a lot of "Purple Hearts" in Heaven! (Just look at our Commander and Chief!) ;)

Anyhow, coffee's getting cold and it's time for tuck-ins, prayers, & stories. But, if you want to read this article or share it, HERE IS THE LINK.

Another good idea is for all of us to keep each other's back: to always pray for the addicted (to whatever!) for their release, their victory! To help them obtain the grace to fight and not get discouraged in battle.

Just think: when we do cross that "finish line" it's a done deal. No more struggle. Just victory and the rewards of victory! Forever, too! That is a very refreshing thought.

Good Night!

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